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Interpersonal & Emotional Behavioral Addictions

When connection becomes compulsion and love becomes a way to survive.

At TruPaths, we understand that some of the most painful addictions don’t involve substances or even behaviors you can easily see. They live in the heart in patterns of love, sex, attention, or emotional intensity that start as connection and end in chaos, shame, or emptiness.

Whether you’re supporting someone who always seems stuck in unhealthy relationships or you’re starting to see these patterns in yourself this page is here to help. With love. With clarity. Without judgment.

What Are Interpersonal & Emotional Addictions?

Interpersonal and emotional addictions are behavioral patterns where someone becomes dependent on emotional intensity, like love, sex, validation, or conflict, to feel worthy, calm their nervous system, or avoid deeper pain. These patterns are often rooted in:

Abandonment Wounds

Unresolved grief from being left, rejected, or forgotten, emotionally or physically.

Emotional Neglect

Growing up without consistent emotional attunement or validation of your inner world.

A Nervous System on Edge

Living in fight-or-flight mode, where intensity feels normal and calm feels unfamiliar.

A Deep Longing To Feel Safe

An aching desire for connection, security, and unconditional acceptance.

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Santa Monica, California

Solace Sober Living

  • (1.5k)
  • Burnout Recovery
  • Mindfulness
  • Shield Insurance Accepted
  • Verified National Alliance for Recovery Residences
$7,387-12,089
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centers
Santa Monica, California

Solace Sober Living

  • (1.5k)
  • Burnout Recovery
  • Mindfulness
  • Shield Insurance Accepted
  • Verified National Alliance for Recovery Residences
$7,387-12,089
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Recognizing Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

If you or someone you love is experiencing any of the following, it may be a sign of deeper emotional pain or unresolved attachment wounds.

Persistent need to chase or cling to romantic partners

Struggling to feel secure without constant reassurance or connection.

Frequent intense relationships that start fast and end painfully

A cycle of quick emotional highs followed by emotional crashes.

Fear of being alone or constantly needing to be "in love"

Difficulty finding peace or identity outside of a relationship.

Compulsive sexual behavior that feels difficult to control

Using intimacy to soothe emotional discomfort or escape.

"They're not addicted to people. They're addicted to feeling worthy if only for a moment."

Explore Common Interpersonal & Emotional Addictions

Choose a path to better understand the signs and find support that heals from the inside out.

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Sex Addiction

When sexual behavior becomes compulsive, secretive, or harmful—and is used to regulate emotions, trauma, or self-worth.

Pornography Addiction

Using porn to numb, escape, or self-soothe—leading to guilt, secrecy, and relationship strain.

Love Addiction

Becoming emotionally dependent on infatuation, fantasy, or needing to be in love to feel whole.

Relationship Codependency

Losing yourself in the needs of others, controlling or rescuing to feel loved or safe, or struggling with boundaries.

Drama & Chaos Addiction

Subconsciously recreating intensity, crisis, or emotional volatility—often rooted in past trauma or nervous system dysregulation.

What's Beneath These Patterns?

Understanding the emotional roots behind unhealthy relational behaviors can lead to lasting healing and self-awareness. Many of these patterns stem from early experiences like:

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Childhood Trauma or Emotional Neglect

A history of abandonment, unmet emotional needs, or instability during childhood can leave deep wounds that echo into adult relationships.

Attachment Wounds and Fear of Rejection

When someone grows up feeling unseen, unimportant, or unloved, they may struggle with fear of abandonment and intense dependency in relationships.

Chaotic or Emotionally Volatile Early Environments

Growing up around unpredictable emotions or relational dysfunction can normalize intensity, leading to difficulty with stability and calm.

Escaping Pain Through Emotional "Highs"

Seeking excitement or intensity can become a way to avoid inner emptiness, shame, or insecurity that hasn't been safely addressed.

What Kind of Support Actually Helps?

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You can’t heal emotional addiction through willpower alone. It takes safety. Structure. And deep emotional work. TruPaths connects you to therapists and recovery programs that understand the emotional wiring behind these patterns.

Certified Sex & Love Addiction Therapists (CSATs)

Experts trained in treating compulsive intimacy and relational challenges with trauma-informed insight.

Relational and Trauma-Informed Therapy

Safe, connected spaces to rebuild trust, self-worth, and nervous system stability.

Family and Couples Recovery Support

Helping loved ones navigate healing together, with tools for healthy communication and connection.

Inclusive, LGBTQIA+ Affirming Care

Support that celebrates identity and provides culturally competent recovery pathways.

Residential and Outpatient Programs

A range of options for those needing deeper support for CSBD, codependency, and emotional intimacy struggles.

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Featured Programs in Interpersonal Recovery

Each program we feature offers personalized, trauma-informed care to help individuals and families heal from the inside out.

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Rebuilding Connection and Trust

Specialized tracks that gently support recovery from intimacy wounds, codependency, and relationship distress.

Healing the Deeper Wounds

Programs designed to address trauma, abandonment, and nervous system dysregulation with compassion and care.

Rooted Identity and Boundary Growth

Goes far beyond behavior control, supporting authentic identity development and healthy boundary setting.

Inclusive Tracks for Every Journey

Tailored recovery options for men, women, LGBTQIA+ individuals, and partners navigating relational healing.

Therapies That Help With Emotional Addiction Recovery

Healing emotional addiction requires more than insight. It takes structure, compassion, and specialized support. These therapeutic approaches are proven to help individuals and families rebuild trust, resilience, and connection.

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CSAT

Uncovers the emotional roots of compulsive sexual behaviors and supports long-term, values-based healing.

Attachment-Focused Therapy

Helps rebuild safety in relationships by strengthening emotional regulation, self-trust, and secure connection.

IFS or EMDR

Gently resolves deep inner wounds by helping individuals process trauma, reparent the inner child, and restore calm.

Financial Coaching or Therapy

Builds practical skills around money and emotional regulation to reduce shame, chaos, or avoidance.

CBT & DBT

Offers tools for emotional stability, impulse awareness, and the ability to pause and choose healthier responses.

Group Support

Creates a safe space to connect with others who share similar experiences, without fear, stigma, or shame.

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You Are Worthy of Love That Doesn’t Hurt

At TruPaths, we believe emotional addiction is a response to pain—not a personality flaw. You don’t have to choose between love and safety anymore. You can have both—and we’re here to help you find your way there. We promise:

  • To treat your story with care
  • To connect you with gentle, trauma-informed recovery
  • To remind you: you are enough without chasing anyone
“You are not too much. You were just never met with enough.”

Begin the Journey to Real Connection

Whether you're learning about emotional addiction for the first time or seeking help for a loved one—TruPaths is here with truth, tenderness, and real tools for healing.

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