I went to the Plano Legacy Inpatient Level of Care. I was scared. But, once coming into the program, I realized what a good fit it was for me at the time. I was in a group of about 20- the inpatient floor stayed busy. We had several group room coordinators, nurses, night staff, therapists, etc. By the end of my 3 months there, I had my favorites and people I didn't click with, which was to be expected. You can't make everyone happy.
Being a biological male, I was in a population of 2. It could've been isolating, but we had other individuals of all backgrounds & ages. It was easy to make friends as you are all going thru a similar struggle and you spend alot of time together.
Be prepared for downtime. No standing, no running, walking while you are in there. 2 outside breaks a day, which were nice. Everyone had a "chair" in the group room that they used daily. You are not allowed to spend time in your rooms, they lock them and everyone is in the group room. I ended up reading many books, did puzzles, journaling- it really was a fantastic break from how crazy I felt before coming in. Bring a jacket as it was cold in there. I wore sweatpants most of the time until the AC broke. (We won't talk about that as it wasn't the staff's fault). Plus, you only get your phone for an hr a day. Crazy at first, but after the first week I didn't want to pick up my phone. I made my calls and turned it back in.
We also had "outings" once you were a high enough phase/ had been there long enough. We went to a mall, a museum, 5 below... many places. Super fun to get out even if you're in this group of adults with feeding tubes coming out of their noses. Who cares. It was nice to get out. They also allow several individual outings which were great, I got to go to the mall and Cheesecake Factory on the 4th of July.
For those identifying as female, you will likely have to share a room at some point. They don't have enough rooms for everyone. You all have a huge bathroom, but with so many girls (15-18), you will have to wait.
As well, EVERYONE will wait for meds. Sometimes 10 minutes, sometimes 1-2 hours. Yes, it is painful. Yes, people are furious. There are only 2 nurses and many people on 20-40+ medications a day, so you have to get used to it.
As for the food and care around that- you have to get used to eating again. It may take you a week, it may take you a month. Everyone is there to support you. The reality is everyone has a different timeline and a different reaction to food. You will see some people crying, vomiting, breaking down. It's part of the process. The food itself is fine. Imagine a hotel type spread. You and your dietician choose the food you'll be eating for the week, and if you don't finish, they will supplement your meal with boost. After getting adjusted, I was recommended to go on a feeding tube like most other patients are. They are uncomfortable for a few hours, & then you don't notice it. The choice to have the tube sped up my recovery immensely and I would recommend it if you want your stay shortened.
One misconception many people have coming into this (including myself) is that you will be receiving specialized, individual, and intense therapy while in treatment. This is simply not the case, nor what the program is designed for. It is supposed to be a shorter stay, where you would then transfer to a lower level of care. Inpatient is all about stabilization, and the therapy reflects that. You have family therapy, and your time is spent talking about your adjustment to the facility. I left wanting more from my therapist but was also reassured we would get to all my concerns in inpatient/outpatient (which I did! Have faith in the program.)
Lastly, not everyone will want to be there. Some people will make their time miserable. Some people will be removed from the program. Some people will be mean to the staff. Some of the girls will fight w/ each other the whole time. Be ready for all types of individuals coming thru that door.
All in all, this program saved my LIFE. I would recommend this to anyone who needs help.